Friendsgiving, women's menu

Dress for seconds.

Wear a polo with a skirt, or a soft top with leggings. Friendsgiving is a potluck in someone's living room, so you need room to sit, reach and go back for more. Pick one color you love and keep everything else quiet.

  • First courseA polo you can hug in
  • Main courseA skirt or legging that gives
  • SideA layer for the patio
  • DessertOne accent, like a hat

Not sure where to start? The Chloe Polo in black works with everything below. Browse the full women's collection for more.

First course

The top you can hug in

Friendsgiving runs long. You cook, you carry, you hug eleven people. Pick a top with stretch and a collar that sits flat. A fitted polo reads dressed up without feeling stiff, and it tucks or untucks depending on how full you are by six.

Chloe Polo in Black, Friendsgiving top | PILLAR
Chloe Polo Black

A fitted black polo that still lets you reach across the table.

$30

Velm Sleeveless Polo in Sky Blue, warm kitchen Friendsgiving top | PILLAR
Velm Sleeveless Polo Sky Blue

Sleeveless for a warm kitchen. Add a layer for the patio.

$29

The Chloe is the safe pick for a cool evening. The Velm is for the host who stands over a hot stove. Both come in sizes from extra small up, and both wash fine after gravy. If you want more on dressing for the main holiday, read our Arizona Thanksgiving guide.

Main course

The bottom that gives

Your waistband is the hardest working part of this outfit. Skip anything with a button you will think about at dessert. Choose a skirt with built in shorts or a legging with real stretch.

Olivia Skirt in Tangerine, Friendsgiving bottom | PILLAR
Olivia Skirt Tangerine

Built in shorts and an easy waist. The one color on your table.

$40

Luna Legging in Blush, comfortable Friendsgiving bottom | PILLAR
Luna Legging Blush

Four way stretch that does not dig in after pie.

$75

Wearing a skirt over leggings if the night drops cold? It works, and we explain the layer order in this leggings under a skirt guide. Leggings only? The rules are in can you wear leggings to Thanksgiving dinner.

Side dish

One color, then stop

If your table has Wear Skip
Lots of beige and candles Tangerine skirt, black polo Three bright colors
A backyard game Leggings, sleeveless polo, tan hat Anything that needs ironing
A formal host Juniper dress, small bag Gym logos

One accent is plenty. If the dress feels right for your group, the Tori in juniper is the easy answer. Here it is with its size picker.

Tori Dress in Juniper, one piece Friendsgiving outfit | PILLAR
Tori Dress Juniper

One piece, deep green, no outfit math. Wear it with a layer.

$65

Brooks Rope Hat in Tan, backyard Friendsgiving | PILLAR
Brooks Rope Hat Tan

For the backyard football game before dinner.

$38

One size

Dessert

Two outfits, one click each

Both kits below use size medium. Change the size in the bag if you need to. Prices are what you pay before shipping, and orders over $75 ship free.

The potluck

Black polo, tangerine skirt. Add the Tori Dress later in the week if the weather turns.

Buy this outfit, $70 total

The yard and the couch

Sleeveless polo, blush legging, tan hat for the football game. Bring a layer.

Buy this outfit, $142 total

Heading to a December party next? Read can you wear an athletic dress to a holiday party. Shopping for a friend? Try gifts for women who work out.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What do you wear to a Friendsgiving?

Wear something you can sit and eat in. A fitted polo with a stretch skirt or leggings is the easy answer, plus a layer if the host has a patio.

Is it okay to wear leggings to Friendsgiving?

Yes. Pick a thick, matte legging and pair it with a polo or a longer top so the outfit reads dressed rather than gym.

What color should I wear to Friendsgiving?

Wear one color you love and keep the rest neutral. Tangerine, juniper and sky blue all photograph well against warm lighting.

Should I dress up for Friendsgiving?

Dress to the host, not the calendar. A potluck at home calls for a polo and skirt. A dinner with place cards calls for a dress.

What shoes go with a Friendsgiving outfit?

Clean white sneakers work with every outfit here. If you are hosting, wear the shoes you can stand in for six hours.

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